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My bf used 2 sleep w/ a girl b4 we startd datin. She still calld, text, even after we startd datin. He ignord her bc she talkd about "how things used to be", & told him she missd him, etc, & thats not ok. We had a baby & durin my pregnancy she startd emailing him. Recently, he told her, "Im happy with my life, family, etc., & have no need 2 talk 2 U". She STILL emaild him sayin "well I still have feelings 4 U & when she fails 2 make U happy, & I know she will, I'll b here waiting bc my feelings havent changd", & basically sayin things about me like she knows me. He hasnt written anything back, bc she doesn't "get it". Should I say something 2 her? She should understand its not right & has a baby herself. The baby's father isnt in their lives so Im thinkin, have a little respect & leave MY bf/baby's dad alone. What do you think?

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:49 AM on Nov. 11, 2008 in Relationships

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  • NO. if he is handeling this the way you feel he should then just let it go. He needs to stop responding to her msgs too! Thats why she keeps writing back. If he is over her and knows she annoying then he needs to cut off all communication with her and she'll EVENTUALLY get the point. GL Just stay calm and know that he loves you. Dont let her get to you it will only make things worse

    Answer by Steph319 at 10:53 AM on Nov. 11, 2008

  • there's nothing you can do other than changing the numbers. your man is handling it well IMO. playing into her game by getting upset will only encourage her. you could possibly respond with a harrassment complaint which lets her know you're cutting her off without drama and personal interaction...

    Answer by figaro8895 at 10:55 AM on Nov. 11, 2008

  • call the police and report her for harassment. They will call her and tell her to stop all contact. If she continues to contact you after that , they will arrest her!

    Answer by amydh at 11:04 AM on Nov. 11, 2008

  • She's pathetic and can't move on, tell her if she continues to call and write you will bring harrasment charges against her.

    Answer by sammiesmom2000 at 11:38 AM on Nov. 11, 2008

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