When I was 14 I was dating a guy and we had gone to his house to talk. At least I thought that was what we were going for. Anyways things started to get heavy and he asked if I wanted to have sex and I said yes. I remember keeping my legs really close together and then telling him no because I didn't want to. He told me it was ok, but I kept saying no. He ended up having sex with me even though I said no. I was talking to my husband the other day and he said that I was raped but is it rape since I had said yes first? I am just confused and have been ever since that day. After that I thought I HAD to have sex with guys for them to stay with me or love me. I only had sex with 1 other guy and my husband.
I am also going to be seeing a therapist soon so I will also be telling her this since I think it has a lot to do why I want to have sex but also hate it when we are actually doing the deed.
I actually don't know if this belongs in relationships or what so this is why I put it here
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