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One of my FB friends whose statuses I enjoy reading is no longer active on FB it looks like. She used to post something almost everyday and now as of late, I've noticed no FB activity with her. Nothing at all. I'm a little worried. Should I message her just to see if she's alive? Am I overreacting? Why would she go from posting everyday to just...nothing?

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:22 AM on Jan. 3, 2011 in Just for Fun

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  • Sure..why not. Just post on her wall that you noticed she hasn't been on!

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 11:25 AM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • she may just be a bit too busy . I know I was on all the time then life got busy and I wasn't on for weeks I had a few friends message me because they were worried. I liked knowing they cared and just told them life got busy but all was well...

    Answer by justgrape723 at 11:26 AM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • Her computer could have died/gotten a virus and she doesn't have another way to put up a status, she could have blocked you from seeing her statuses, she may have taken a cold turkey hiatus from fb, or she could be like me, posting a few new statuses a day, and then have someone say something derogatory making her not want to post anyting again for a while. Go ahead and send her a message (through the inbox, or other e-mail) saying something like "I miss your statuses, you always make me laugh/smile when you post something new, just want to make sure everythign okay since there hasn't been anything new for a while" or give her a call saying the same thing.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:29 AM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • maybe she is having internet/phone/computer problems?

    Answer by sweetestkitten at 11:29 AM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • I wouldn't put too much thought into it. She's probably tired of being on all the time. I had a FB friend that just fell off the grid. I found out that she canceled her account. It got to be too much for her. If you want, send a quick message to check up on her, but I wouldn't worry.

    Answer by mommabecky83 at 11:30 AM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • Sure, send her a message! I know I'll go for weeks posting every day, then I won't for several days - I just get busy.

    Answer by Scuba at 11:31 AM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • sure send her a msg to see whats up

    Answer by mekarevell at 11:44 AM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • Go to her page. Is she still active with other things on there?

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 11:44 AM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • No. She's not active with anything else! No status updates, no comments on anybody else's page, no "liking" of anything. Nothing at all.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 11:54 AM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • yes send a message

    Answer by sarasmommy777 at 12:52 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

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