My bf is stationed over in afganistan now and wont be home for at least another 6 to 8 months. He is afraid that i will cheat on him while he is there. I keep telling him that i will wait on him and that he has nothing to worry about. The reason he is like this is that the mother of his children cheated on him while they were together and he was over in iraq a few years back. I just want him to believe me that i am not like his ex. He is afraid that becasue we are not together i will. I understand what he is thinking because i have had the same thing happen to me while i was apart from my ex. He cheated on me. This one is great and I think there is a futere for us but how do i make him trust me enough to know that i wont hurt him like her.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:40 PM on Jan. 3, 2011 in Relationships
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Tough question. And I can't believe in long distance relationship. If he doesn't trust you than you can't really do anything but do not cheat on him, show him every day you are 100% next to him, you love him and you do so really miss him. My SO is with us all the time and he wouldn't think to move somewhere where we couldn't be together. So I am lucky. But I believe that a relationship need a partner who is your best friend, your ally, husband, father of your children. If someone is not there than he is just not there. Not really a whole family. But it is just my feelings. There are loads of army wives out there who can tell you better advices because they are in the same shoes as you. I am sorry you can't be with your love:( Hugs.
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