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Answer by jessicajacobson at 2:27 PM on Jan. 3, 2011
Answer by gou18 at 2:28 PM on Jan. 3, 2011
Answer by Mme.Langley at 2:39 PM on Jan. 3, 2011
Answer by tiddliwinks at 2:39 PM on Jan. 3, 2011
I guess it depends on what family members and if they have anything to do with people you still wish to stay in contact with. I have a side of my family that wasn't bringing anything but negativity to me. I cut them off. I just refuse to communicate with them. If I move I don't send them our new address and phone number. To be completely honest, it was a volatile relationship from the beginning so it wasn't all that hard once I got past feeling resentful of their attitude towards me. I had finally had enough and decided that instead of feeling hurt or negative that I would just let that whole side go and try to be a peace with it. I am at peace with it. These were extended family and while there are quite a few of them, I didn't feel that they brought enough good to the table and they made my job pretty easy. If it were in my immediate family it would have been a much more difficult thing to do. What's your story?
Answer by QuinnMae at 2:41 PM on Jan. 3, 2011
Easy just ignore them and write them off until they are willing to change. We didn't speak to my MIL for a year in a half until she realized that I was here to stay and she isn't the keeper of our lives.
Answer by kiansmom0423 at 2:41 PM on Jan. 3, 2011
Answer by momto4girzls at 10:34 AM on Jan. 4, 2011