whenever my close relative gets angry with me, she will block her e-mail account against me. this prevents my girls unable to keep in touch with their cousins. she says if i can't accept her husband then i can't accept her boys and her either. she says that's my prob not hers. how is it? That makes no sense to me. we are all individual people. she won't come to my home if her husband isn't welcomed. her husband has sent a volgur im that my kids could of read. the issue is between her husband and my husband not her nor I, right?. imo its not fair for any of our kids I do not block her account against our account. i keep it open for kids to kkep in contact. i don't see a prob with us not accepting her husband. we don't like him so why should he come to our home?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:43 PM on Jan. 3, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by samurai_chica at 2:45 PM on Jan. 3, 2011
Answer by gdiamante at 2:47 PM on Jan. 3, 2011
Sometimes you've got to just "suck it up" and be cordial when it comes to not liking a spouse of a close family member.
Answer by shanlaree at 2:47 PM on Jan. 3, 2011
Honestly, if lets say my brother said my husband wasn't welcome in their home, needless to say my brother and I wouldn't be talking.
Answer by kiansmom0423 at 2:50 PM on Jan. 3, 2011
You made your choice, she gets to make her choice too.
Answer by QuinnMae at 2:52 PM on Jan. 3, 2011
Answer by shanlaree at 2:57 PM on Jan. 3, 2011
She may look at her family as a whole package. If you want to take one or two of them, you have to take them all. How would you feel if they told you that your DH wasn't welcome in their home? I'm not saying they are right or wrong, but if you are willing to make a stand for something you believe in (you not wanting a vulgar BIL around your family), you also need to understand that they have the same right to make their own stand. I will agree though that it's sad that the cousins won't be able to see each other.
Answer by QuinnMae at 3:00 PM on Jan. 3, 2011
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