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Can men be raped?

By women...or don't they all just want sex anyway?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:56 PM on Jan. 3, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I have a hard time understanding how a man can be raped by a woman.
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 6:57 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • Of course they can. No means no whether you have a vagina or a penis.
    SleepingBeautee

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 6:57 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • Yes, men can be raped by women. It is generally not as common as women being raped by men but it is still a possibility. The assumption that all men just want sex anyways is a stereotypical generalization.

    KristiS11384

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 6:58 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • yup they can
    Gen

    Answer by Gen at 6:58 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • I suppose they could.I don't think a man would admit to it.
    evelynwest

    Answer by evelynwest at 6:58 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • What kind of stupid question is this? Men cant control being turned on. Women who are raped get turned on but it doesn't mean they still want it. No means no whether you're a man or a woman
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 6:58 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • I think, an unwilling penis would be very hard to rape, don't you think?
    older

    Answer by older at 6:58 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • I think, an unwilling penis would be very hard to rape, don't you think?


    That's kinda funny, but at the same time, it can be done. I mean what if she slips viagra in his drink or something.(Obviously an overgeneralization of how to make him more "willing).
    KristiS11384

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 7:00 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • "I think, an unwilling penis would be very hard to rape, don't you think? "

    Love you Doll... but i have to disagree with you on this. Lots of rape victims involuntarily get turned on by the rape. Men can not control their penis'. No means No.
    SleepingBeautee

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 7:00 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • Yea... and men can't be beaten by their partners either.

    They can be raped. They can be abused just as badly as women can, it's just not talked about.
    All this type of hting does is make them even less likely to come forward, and the problem gets worse.

    An errections is a physical reaction to stimuli, it has an emotional / psychological component, but it's still a physical reactiona nd can be forced just as much as any other.
    Piskie

    Answer by Piskie at 7:02 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

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