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Can you really be in a relationship when niether of you have a job though you actually love each other?

if you cant be positive dnt comment i dnt need the negativity !


Asked by noka22 at 7:44 PM on Jan. 3, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • being in love has nothing to do with having jobs. but goiing out together is essentiall for the relationship. in order to really have fun together and be able to go out places you need money....and money come frm having jobs.

    Answer by bronxbaby000 at 8:51 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • I don't think being in love has anything to do with having a job. But if you want to create a life together then having a job in order to do that is necessary.


    Answer by sue118 at 7:47 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • if you're that concerned maybe you should get a job

    Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 7:59 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • If you're drug addicts...

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 7:55 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • Sure but if you don't want to be homeless I'd find a friend or family member to take us in till we found jobs

    Answer by admckenzie at 7:56 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • see the problem is that my guy has seasonal work but he dosent have money like that to do what he really want to do and by us being together im wondering will our relationship be able to survive since there isnt much money?

    Comment by noka22 (original poster) at 7:57 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • i have a job but it dnt bring in much money tho there are other things that preventing a better job i can have.

    Comment by noka22 (original poster) at 8:02 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • If you want to get married and have children, one or both of you needs to have a stable job with steady income.

    Answer by Bethsunshine at 8:05 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • Sure...if you are in highschool, but in the real world you need money to survive and take care of a family. You guys might wanna work on getting jobs, and if you have one (I say that because i'm confused on whether or not you have a job because of one of your posts) and it doesn't bring in enough money, get another job (and one that isn't just seasonal). Responsibilities my dear.

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 8:17 PM on Jan. 3, 2011

  • When neither of you has a job? How is it that you're planning to pay your living expenses?

    Answer by aliceinalgonac at 8:17 PM on Jan. 3, 2011