for example, if i say i may put my son in daycare. they say daycare care too many germs, your going to be leaving your son with complete stranger. or if i take to see his dad. they say why would you let him see him if your relationship turned out bad....
Asked by Anonymous at 12:24 AM on Jan. 4, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by gdiamante at 2:14 PM on Jan. 4, 2011
Answer by Marie_07 at 12:26 AM on Jan. 4, 2011
Answer by truthteller0722 at 12:29 AM on Jan. 4, 2011
Answer by Lynnsae at 12:27 AM on Jan. 4, 2011
Like Marie said (and did).... you should talk to whomever is being critical, and tell them "I know you care about (son's name) very much, but he is MY child and I am doing what I have to do to give him the best future possible. That includes making sure I can get to work (or school, whatever the daycare is for) and making sure he has a relationship with his father. Your unsolicited advice makes me feel like a crappy mom sometimes, and I don't need that. So in the future, please hold off on commenting on my parenting, unless I ask for your advice. Thanks..and I love you! " :) They may not like to hear it, but I believe honesty...told with LOVE... is the best policy.
Answer by brandyj at 1:08 AM on Jan. 4, 2011
Answer by premiemom18 at 1:16 AM on Jan. 4, 2011
Answer by eluc at 10:32 AM on Jan. 4, 2011