I recently posted a thread about my dilemma with my 2 daughters and how their stepmom was abusing my youngest. I called the police and filed a report and they said dcfs would be coming out to talk to my daughter about the abuse. His girlfriend (the stepmom) pretended like she was him and started texting me about it all, when I mentioned my daughter would be talked to by DCFS she seemed to get really nervous and then called my ex. I have tried to talk to him about what the girls say and his mom has also tried to talk to him but he dismisses it every time. When he found out they were involved he finally called me about the situation. (first call in over a year) We had a heated discussion but he did say he wants to know if his girls are being hurt and if so he needs to do something with the son they have together. The girls say that he is always at work and out of the room and she does this behind his back. Im scared for all the kids in the situation and he asked if we could all meet at his moms house for a few hours so he could hear what the girls had to say about the situation. I would be present. I am going to court tomorrow for a temporary custody order with supervised visitation at his mothers house so the stepmom cant be around. Before I told him this he said he wants the girls to stay at his moms and he will see them there. He sounds worried and I am trying my best to believe him but this is his girlfriend and when she threatened me in the past he did nothing and seems to always take her side. His mother says anytime she tells him anything he gets angry at her.
Should I allow him to talk to the girls if I am there? Or should I just keep going through the legal system?
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