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is my hubby lazy when it comes to sex?? adult content

so he never wants to try anything new..always wants me on top i mean i can go for hours wit me being on top..but it would be nice to try different stuff..is he just to lazy or does he just like me being on top??

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:54 PM on Jan. 4, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (14)
  • yep,lazy and unimaginative
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:55 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • depends how often you have sex....
    Tiffany8168

    Answer by Tiffany8168 at 5:55 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • Some people are more adventurous than others. Have you tried suggesting something new?
    ImaginationMama

    Answer by ImaginationMama at 5:56 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • I'd say lazy, because I have personally never met a man who didn't like more than one position. If I was you I'd be telling him that you'd like to try another position and see what he says.
    newfound09

    Answer by newfound09 at 5:57 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • I wouldn't call him lazy... it just sounds like he knows what he likes and is hesitant to try something new. Maybe suggest something new you would like to try and "teach" him.
    JessiFaye

    Answer by JessiFaye at 5:57 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • well if you are bored tell him - if he wont change he is lazy or scared or inhibited -idk only you know him.... if he does change - that is good!
    AmaliaD

    Answer by AmaliaD at 5:58 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • yes i have said why dont we try this or that n he says i like it like this. (me on top)..we do it 2-4 times a week.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 5:59 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • Maybe lazy, not sure. Selfish? Yes. He needs to work a bit, you know what I mean?
    amybaby_19

    Answer by amybaby_19 at 5:59 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • maybe hes uncomfortable trying new stuff. Talk to him if you can. Or maybe hes just lazy... ;)
    Collegemommy910

    Answer by Collegemommy910 at 5:59 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • I agree, he sounds unimaginative. And lazy, and boring.
    Raine2001

    Answer by Raine2001 at 6:00 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

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