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How far were/are you when you lost your want for sex? adult content

Curious, cause im 2 days shy if 24 weeks a.k.a. 6 months. and all of a sudden I went from a HUGHE sex drive to EH, I mean not to get to personal with you all, but after 10 days of nothing, I couldnt get mine and he had a hard time.... is it me that caused him to have the hard time?!??!

2 questions in one lol my bad

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Asked by mommyoftristan at 9:31 PM on Jan. 4, 2011 in Pregnancy

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  • I think it just depends on the person, I never really loose my drive during pregnancy. There are some that do not have a drive from the beginning though.

    Answer by Melbornj at 9:32 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • it really sucks!! lol. its like really?!?! blah. i dont like it

    Comment by mommyoftristan (original poster) at 9:34 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • With my first I had no sex drive, we maybe had sex 9 or 10 times. But I did "take care" of him. With the second I couldn't get enough all the way to the end, huge sex drive. And the third time, it was the same as usual, no more, no less.

    Answer by canadianmom1974 at 11:23 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • Everyone is different. I didnt want none after I was 14weeks and about 25wk I was ready to go, Im 30 weeks and its off and on depending on the day. lol

    Answer by sissy0604 at 1:39 AM on Jan. 5, 2011

  • well i went from having an amazing sex drive in the beginning of this pregnancy then when 12 wks hit i started losing any desire to have it and now i cant even have orgasms. I am 22 wks and hoping it will come back soon!

    Answer by MsBrazil86 at 7:27 AM on Jan. 5, 2011

  • I am one of those strange strange women with high sex drives. I never lost it. In fact I demanded more. ;) I know some women don't want sex at all ever and some have it wax and wane. Depends on the woman and each pregnancy is differnt. Those I have heard the second trimester ( I know you are past that) called the honeymoon phase.

    Answer by elyssek832 at 10:00 AM on Jan. 5, 2011

  • yeah im in the 2nd tri. middle of 6 months.. i want to have it.. and dont want to seem like im faking it.. but i dont want to turn him down cause the fear of finding it elsewhere ya know

    Comment by mommyoftristan (original poster) at 12:26 PM on Jan. 5, 2011

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