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Yes well gotta face reality. I found a number on my "husband's" phone bill...

He is denying it and I can't confront her bc for one she will lie, and two she doesn't speak English. I'm pretty much done w him. He called her tonight right before he walked in the door. What would you do?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:37 PM on Jan. 4, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (12)
  • Sorry to hear that. If you know you know I guess.
    Musicmom80

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 9:39 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • I would line all of my ducks up in a row to leave. I would make sure I had money to take care of myself and my kid(s). I would consult an attorney and file for divorce/
    bcauseimthemom

    Answer by bcauseimthemom at 9:47 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • I agree w/ bcauseimthemom
    jeanclaudia

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 9:55 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • I also agree with bcauseinthemom.
    idaspida

    Answer by idaspida at 10:33 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • agree with above :D
    BrookesMommy824

    Answer by BrookesMommy824 at 10:39 PM on Jan. 4, 2011

  • Since we have cell phones and I have all the account access, I would go online and block the number. If a new number popped up and it was her, I'd block it, too. Blocking would be calls and messages. I'd see what happened while preparing for the worst case scenario.
    JZ10FPM

    Answer by JZ10FPM at 12:12 AM on Jan. 5, 2011

  • She may not understand English but she will understand a good ass beatin! JK I would get ahold of every penny you can before you leave. Take your kids with you when you go. And take all the furniture you can, even if it is old, buying all new will cost a lot, I am sorry for what you are going through.
    JLS2388

    Answer by JLS2388 at 1:46 AM on Jan. 5, 2011

  • why is husband in parathesis?
    gulfcoastmom4

    Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 6:38 AM on Jan. 5, 2011

  • You shouldn't confront her at all with your marital problems. Its your husband who deserves the beat down, NOT the woman...remember she didn't make a comittment to you BUT HE DID!!! With that being said, why can't you bring this up to your husband?
    mom2mybabes

    Answer by mom2mybabes at 12:45 PM on Jan. 5, 2011

  • I would leave and take as much as I can with me.
    LiLJeni

    Answer by LiLJeni at 3:29 PM on Jan. 5, 2011

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