Ok...My husband and I from the begining of our marrige talked about masturbation and came to the agreement TOGETHER that that is something that we were not going to do without one another. So basically without the other one ither being there or knowing what is going on. anyway, I had to go somewhere yesterday to return something to the store. I left, forgot my item had and to drive back to our house to get it. I was gone for probably 5 min. I got back and I caught my husband masturbating. I can't explain how bad this hurt me. I suppose it was the fact that I was right there and would have been willing to please him, and it makes me feel like he was waiting around on me to leave. What should I do? or what would you do in this situation? He somehow turned it around on me and made me feel bad about catching him...I'm just hurt and confused so please help any advice would be greatAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:55 PM on Nov. 11, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by elananme at 4:00 PM on Nov. 11, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 4:01 PM on Nov. 11, 2008
honestly I think it's unreasonable for you to ask to him not to masturbate. He shouldn't have agreed to it. He should have been honest with you from the get go.
If honesty is your goal and you want him to tell you everything, you have to accept that men masturbate. Asking him not to it is essentially asking him to lie to you about it.
If you don't to even want think about him doing it you could adopt a don't ask don't tell policy.
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