I'm so confused atm. I've never really liked men, I like girls during teenage years but everyone knows that's just hormones and idolising and stuff. Then at uni I met a sweet man who loved me, we got married and had 2 children. Unfortunately he was diagnosed with terminal cancer and passed away 8 years ago. The kids are 12 and 10 now so I'm starting to think about relationships and I've realised all these years I've never liked a man, always women. On the TV always women. I never looked at the men. I recently met a woman who talks to me non-stop and I started to think what the hell am I feeling. I sound like a confused teenager I know.
All my life i've been taught that being gay is wrong and it's something to be abhorred and now I'm so confused. Do I just ignore it and stay alone? I don't think it would be fair if I found a man who I liked as a friend... I'm not sure. I'm only 31 so I don't want to be alone forever. Or can I change my belief system? I'm honestly in a pickle.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:58 AM on Jan. 5, 2011 in Relationships
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