I just had my second son, I go to school, and I'm looking for a decent job to get me by. I live with my mother for the time being, but I don't really want to anymore. I need to move out, but I'm not sure what to do with my kids. I go to school for 830 to 5, and I'll be working on top of that, I have a 1 year old and a 1 month old..they are too young for day care. I dont have much family in this country, and I dont want to live in the area my mother lives in. And I'm sure I wont be able to afford a babysitter.
Even after I finish school, what am I supposed to do with my kids when I go to work?
Its a dumb question, but I really have no idea.
Answer by Misteh at 10:14 AM on Jan. 5, 2011
Answer by do_me22 at 10:17 AM on Jan. 5, 2011
Answer by rebeccadac at 10:18 AM on Jan. 5, 2011
Answer by twinsplus2more at 10:25 AM on Jan. 5, 2011
This all sounds like wishful thinking. You go to school all day, and you don't have a job. Have you ever lived on your own and supported yourself? Even if you get a full time job, I doubt you're going to be making enough to pay for babysitters of when you're in school and working. Also, I hope you're taking birth control so you don't have another child right now. You need to concentrate on getting an education so you can, in the future, support yourself and your children. Is the reason you don't want to live with your mother anymore because she's saying some of these same things, and you don't like her telling you what to do? Think about your situation realistically. It sounds like your mother is willing to help you. Take the help you need right now. Study hard and make a good future for yourself and your children.
Answer by SweetLuci at 10:28 AM on Jan. 5, 2011
Answer by mrsmom110 at 10:34 AM on Jan. 5, 2011
Answer by lambdarose at 11:23 AM on Jan. 5, 2011