I am starting my own company and the father of my child (whom I live with) is not happy. I would only be gone for a week. Since there is no custody established I'm scared he might try some bs... But I don't want to try for custody until I'm making stable money and have my own place.
He says he only wants to be there and support me (mentally and all not financially) if I'm going to school. I went to school but had to stop because he wouldn't watch my son or he'd take the car key... the list goes on... Anyways he is mad that I sometimes gogo dance (where all your clothes stay on) but says he doesn't care if I strip. My company is a promotion/ entertainment company so I do have to work around men and that is why he doesn't support this, yet he'd rather have me naked on strange men?!?! (sorry that part was a vent)
Anyways would I get introuble for taking my son to my mother's in Oregon ( we live in WA) for that week? He said it's kidnapping but I'm not sure... any advice would be appreciated... I really can't miss this opportunity, it's going to be a huge milestone for my business but I don't want him to try to run off with my son...
And btw I could have completely lied about everything to him but I chose to be honest.. but he is so insecure he thinks I'm having sex with everything that walks
Thanks for listening!
Answer by Scuba at 10:22 AM on Jan. 5, 2011
Answer by nicjon at 10:26 AM on Jan. 5, 2011
Answer by samurai_chica at 10:27 AM on Jan. 5, 2011
Answer by samurai_chica at 10:28 AM on Jan. 5, 2011
If he has threatened to file kidnapping charges on you then by forewarned, cause he might. With the way things are today I would be super careful with this, the police take this kind of stuff very seriously. You are taking HIS son out of state, he has every reason to call the police and file a missing persons report on his son. I would check the laws out first before you do this. Even go down to the local police dept and ask them yourself. At least you would know what would happen if he indeed went after you on this.
Answer by beyondhopes at 10:28 AM on Jan. 5, 2011
Answer by GroceryMom at 10:33 AM on Jan. 5, 2011
Answer by beyondhopes at 10:33 AM on Jan. 5, 2011
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 10:40 AM on Jan. 5, 2011
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