how many do you have and how how old are they? do they have their own rooms or share? the other moms are right when they recomment a routine. if they are young then maybe you could have them put a stuffed animal or doll to bed first. if they are a little older then let them read for 30 minutes in bed. You could get a timer and put it on their lamp so they know when book time is over and sleep time begins.
Also, you could have a reward system for the nights they go to bed without a problem.
Good luck and try to keep your cool.
at 9:35 PM on Jan. 5, 2011