My DH and I have sex maybe 3-5 times a month. It used to be 2-3 times a day when we were dating. We have 3 kids, 2 from my previous relationships and 1 together. We have been together for almost 4 years and when we met he treated me like I was this queen and he never complained about paying for things and taking me out and treating me like I was the only thing that mattered. Fast forward 3 years and he's sarcastic to me, jokes with me when I'm serious or jokes about me, we fight 5 days of the week, which in turn, turns me off to sex. I've told him, my brain is hardwired to my sexy parts. If I'm mad at you, I'm not going to want to turn that off so I can have sex with the person who is pissing me off!
Our sex is great when we do have it, and he satifies every need for me and I him. But I don't know what to do to get in the mood more. We have dates night once in a while, but that's it. I feel like I'm going to the movies with a friend. Or dinner and we just sit there and eat.
He is loving and cares about me, like wanting to kiss me all the time, or hold my hand, but it always ends up with him just trying to grab at my body. Which sets me off, like he can't respect me enough to not grab my boobs or rub against my butt. I don't know what to do!!! We've talked about it before, but it always comes back to the circle. Don't do that and I would want to have sex with you more. You give me what I ask for and I won't do the things I do to make you mad..And on and on...
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