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2 parter, DH related....

1) has he ever said he hates u?

2) how long ago was last time?

oops I lied, 3 parter. Are you still together?

Hate in any context. Genuine or spur of moment fighting

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Asked by hibbingmom at 12:24 AM on Jan. 6, 2011 in Relationships

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  • He has never said he hated me.
    If he did we would probably need some help...he doesn't hate anything and when I say that I "hate" how someone is driving (example) he tells me that hate is a strong word and do I really "hate" them?

    Answer by tobys.mommy at 12:29 AM on Jan. 6, 2011

  • He actually just told me he hated me about a couple hours ago. :( yes we are still together. It is actually debatable right now. We got in a huge fight. We have been fighting for a few days now.

    Answer by knw2425 at 12:57 AM on Jan. 6, 2011

  • oh but he isn't my husband, we are engaged. well, were in egaged, he says we aren't now.

    Answer by knw2425 at 12:58 AM on Jan. 6, 2011

  • He's incapable of hate. Extreme dislike, yes. However, he's never had ill-will toward me.

    Answer by _Tam_ at 2:45 AM on Jan. 6, 2011

  • He has never told me that he hates me. He hates things I do, but never said it about me. After 15 yrs, we are still togather.

    Answer by augest1 at 3:11 AM on Jan. 6, 2011

  • No, my husband has never told me he "hated me" .. in any context.. Even in our worst of times, that phrase has never passed his lips. We've been married 25 years.

    ((( I should add this to be fair. My husband does not believe in nor does he ever use the word "hate".. it is not a term, or even a "feeling" that he believes in or acknowledges. "Hating" is bad for one's karma & soul, so my husband does not do "hate" in any form in regards to anyone or anything.. He dislikes, he even loathes, but he never "hates". "Hating" completely goes against his dharma as a Sikh).

    Answer by pixie_trix at 12:07 PM on Jan. 6, 2011

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