Long story short, my SO has a crazy ex girlfriend who is still madly in love with ihm, and not afraid of sharing that (she's sent him emails, he doesn't respond). Out of the blue they had some contact a few months ago, because we got something in the mail with her name on it. I saw the emails they sent, no biggie. He promised me that he has no feelings and even though she does- she means nothing to him. It was a big issue for a while but I finally got over my insecurities and it's been months since her name has even been mentioned...THEN he just got a call tonight from a number- and then a voicemail, and I'm pretty sure it's her (recognize the number from an email, or at least the first 4 or 5 digits-it's from southern cali and we live in northern cali)...
So i probably sound somewhat paranoid- and obviously I want to know if it's her, but there's no real way without me just asking- and I promised that I would never bring her up again...so should I just chill and wait until there is, if there ever is, something to actually worry about?? guess this is more of a vent but any advice would be great :)
Asked by Anonymous at 1:13 AM on Jan. 6, 2011 in Relationships
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