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If ur SO died today, would u remarry or start dating again? If so, how long would u wait?

 
mamaziller

Asked by mamaziller at 9:47 AM on Jan. 6, 2011 in

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  • what a morbid thought! i honestly don't know if i'd want to move on. we have 3 kids, all under the age of 5. so if my husband were to pass, the last thing i'd think about right away was moving on. id probably focus all of my time and energy on the children. it would take a very long time for me to heal.. we're highschool sweethearts and best friends. i know there's nobody else on this earth that can replace him.
    tnm786

    Answer by tnm786 at 10:04 AM on Jan. 6, 2011

  • Ah, don't say that! I honestly don't know, because right now I can't imagine life without him. I must be hormonal, because your question totally made me tear up at the thought.
    SabrinaBean

    Answer by SabrinaBean at 9:58 AM on Jan. 6, 2011

  • If it were me, I would be too busy putting all my energy into raising my kids, working and paying the bills to care too much about dating let alone re-marrying.
    MizLee

    Answer by MizLee at 10:19 AM on Jan. 6, 2011

  • The professional say you should wait a year before you make any serious decisions. I think it's up to the person, when they would start dating, but in my experience with this happening to friends, most are not ready for quite awhile.
    SweetLuci

    Answer by SweetLuci at 2:25 PM on Jan. 6, 2011

  • I wouldn't look for another, I would be so heart broken and depressed.
    sexyfancyface

    Answer by sexyfancyface at 2:20 AM on Jan. 8, 2011

  • A loooooooong time.
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 9:47 AM on Jan. 6, 2011

  • quite a long time, I'd have to finish raising my kids and it would be tough finding work right now
    Mandz1

    Answer by Mandz1 at 9:48 AM on Jan. 6, 2011

  • I would wait a very long time to date again, I could not say i would remarry... Um, my self and my mate are working on our relationship we are separated, but I don't know what I would do with out him.
    KFree907

    Answer by KFree907 at 9:48 AM on Jan. 6, 2011

  • long time if ever.....
    Collegemommy910

    Answer by Collegemommy910 at 9:49 AM on Jan. 6, 2011

  • I woul date long down the road, but I don't think I could accept another man's last name so I doubt I would get married. I am proud and honored to hold my husband's last name and can't imagine ever changing that.
    CassiRae3

    Answer by CassiRae3 at 9:51 AM on Jan. 6, 2011