My birthday is next Friday and I've reminded my other half twice to gt off at 5 that day so he can make it to my birthday dinner (that my parents and family throw for me). He came home today with his schedule (he writes the schedule) and he scheduled himself to work until 8.
Part of me wants to tell him so he can fix it, but at the same time it feels like crap that he can't bother to remember that it is my birthday, even after I reminded him twice. I think I'm also a bit touchy about it because this is the third time something else has been more important on my birthday. My birthday isn't that big of a deal, it isn't a big to-do or anything, but it would be nice if my S/O would make the effort to be there.
Would you just let it go and have your birthday dinner without him, or would you say something? If you would say something, would you be nice about it or would you be upset?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:02 AM on Jan. 7, 2011 in Relationships
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