Okay, as many of you know, my dearest son passed away yesterday. My problem is this, my daughter came to me today, and asked where Travis' aftershave was, it had been in the livingroom on the coffee table. I didn't have a clue. 'With Travis gone, there are 4 of us in the house. Myself, my daughter, my step-son, and my daughter's father. His name is Bill, and he is a complete asshole. He drinks, if he's not at work, he's drinking. All the times that Travis tried to quit drinking over the past year, Bill has been waving his rum under his nose, drinking it right in front of him, and leaving his full cup of straight rum on the coffee table when he left the room, like daring Travis to go ahead and drink it! I HATE THIS ASSHOLE! But I put up with him so his daughter can know her dad. So you can understand why I feel that he was partly responsible for Travis' death! Well, the morning that Travis died, he was sleeping on the couch when my daughter came in the door. Bill was sitting there watching TV, and he instantly started in bad-mouthing my son to my daughter. Travis had actually woken up, and he heard the whole thing! So all that day he was really hurt and pissed off at Bill, and I think he actually would have tried to kill Bill, but I kept coming between them.
So there was no love between the two men. Well tonight my dd walked into my room after her dad had woke up and gives me the aftershave! She got it back from him! Then I went into his room after he left for work, and looked in his drawers and found a Craftsman bit set that Travis had just gotten for Christmas from his Grandmother!
My question is this: Am I overreacting to be so upset about this? Should I leave the bit set in his drawer, and ask him for it in the morning? Should I take the set, and not say anything? My first reaction was disbelief, that this brainless moronic asswipe, would dare to take my son's things! He doesn't even own a drill! I now own ALL of Travis' tools. And ALL of Travis" tools are going to stay right where they are! The sorriest thing about the whole mess is that if I ask him in the morning, he won't have a clue where they went! Because he is incapable of telling the truth about ANYTHING! And I know that Travis would not want him to have a thing. Travis hated him like I do, we used to sit and laugh together about his stupidity, and the brainless things he would say and do! HELP ME PLEASE?
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