My Husband and I are happily married. His children live in another state. He told me that if he would have never met me he would be living in the same state as his children.
My step children came to visit over Christmas break and the last night they were here my step daughter cried hysterically telling her father how much she misses him and loves him and wants him back. Im not sure what he told her, but it made me feel uneasy in a way.
I myself am bound to this state and I am NOT allowed to move my children out of state bc I need my EX Husbands permission (and he would NEVER give me the ok to do so). The only reason he is still in this state (my husband) is bc of us. I told him that as much as it would tear me apart, and how much I would hurt, that if he needed to move to the state where his children are, then by all means go for it. I am really* terrified he may just do that. I think he may go back to his ex and raise his children with her. He is the type of man who would sacrifice HIS happiness for his children.
I am soooo scared to lose him. I really am. I am numb. I dont ever want him to regret his decision of not being able to be with his children, I dont know what to do, say or feel anymore........
Asked by Anonymous at 9:08 AM on Jan. 7, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Misteh at 9:13 AM on Jan. 7, 2011
Answer by rkoloms at 9:19 AM on Jan. 7, 2011
Your husband sounds like a rare breed and I don't blame you for being concerned about losing this great guy. Most men are little more than donors and don't care about the child they leave behind. This is something you both have to talk about and see if you can come up with a happy medium. I'm hoping that your x may work with you on this, but then again he probably doesn't want to lose his children either. I wish you the best hon, this is a delicate issue for sure.......GL
Answer by zbee at 9:20 AM on Jan. 7, 2011
Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 9:21 AM on Jan. 7, 2011
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Answer by 21lisa72 at 10:43 AM on Jan. 7, 2011