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Are you regulary berated/harrassed/stalked by some vapid being or other on CafeMom?


Asked by misses_nick at 9:22 AM on Jan. 7, 2011 in About CafeMom

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Answers (15)
  • BTW I seriously LOLed at 'vapid being'! such a great way to describe them

    Answer by Liansmommie at 6:49 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • I don't have one, but I've noticed that some ladies get voted down no matter what their response is to a question. I always give them a vote up to balance out the idiocy. :)

    Answer by Scuba at 9:23 AM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • Me too scuba! I always vote them up. I don't think i have a stalker, but noticed the same thing as scuba. Some people ALWAYS get voted down even if it's a harmless answer. Those people are just very immature. They should head back to middle school instead of playing on CM.

    Answer by samurai_chica at 9:27 AM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • No. I don't think I've ever pissed someone off that much, although I have received a couple of idiotic private messages before. But no stalkers thus far.

    Answer by vicesix at 9:28 AM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • Well sometimes I do not answer certain ladies questions because I know how they are. I learned to stay away from the drama. To tell you the truth I read more than I answer. I find myself getting stressed being on here lately. I just do not understand why certain ones like to attack all the time.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:29 AM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • I agree with anon. I tend to skip questions if they are posted from certain people.

    Answer by arenad at 9:33 AM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • I don't think I have stalkers, but I think there are a few people who like to vote me down no matter what I say. Sometimes I actually try to figure out why they may have done it--like where my answer implies you shouldn't generalize about all people, for example. Sometimes it just makes me laugh, for example, two people voted me down because I didn't think Obama would care if he was invited to Prince William's wedding and I thought it was cool that they wanted to invite more everyday kinds of people and not just world leaders & well to do people. I have no idea which statement is the reason they voted me down--or if they've just decided they don't like me, but that two people wasted their down votes on that question cracked me up. I try to vote people up who were not rude but were voted down anyway, and I try to save down votes for really rude comments or personal attacks on other people. They're pretty meaningless anyway

    Answer by pam19 at 11:50 AM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • Wow, I do not vote people down either. I didn't really realize that there were such childish people on herre. I haven't had any major problems.

    Answer by jen2774161 at 9:34 AM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • No... I don't think so...I do have someone who likes to vote my answers, but I don't really care. I actually looked at my blocked users list, and found someone had blocked me! I don't for the life of me know why, because I'd never been to her profile or anything! It was kind of funny.

    Answer by lovinangels at 11:26 AM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • No, thankfully, they've left me alone.

    Answer by tasches at 6:10 PM on Jan. 7, 2011