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how do you tell

when someone doesnt love you.
but youre pretty sure they are faking that they do.
they told you theyve pretended to a previous girl they loved her, wnated to marry her, have children with her, etc?
now that you know that, you start to wonder if hes doing it to you too?

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Asked by JT32606 at 1:07 PM on Jan. 7, 2011 in Relationships

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  • His actions and time lots of time.

    Answer by hotrodlassie at 1:08 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • How does he act towards you?

    Answer by Marie_07 at 1:09 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • yes, but he is good at pretending.

    Comment by JT32606 (original poster) at 1:09 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • like a man in love would. but hes faked it VERY well before.......and im afraid he is doing it to me.
    i also have trust issues with men, becausee of my ex (sons father)

    Comment by JT32606 (original poster) at 1:10 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • Well sounds like you already have made up your mind about him maybe its time for you to move on

    Answer by Marie_07 at 1:18 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • His actions.

    Answer by bmswifey at 1:21 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • Is there anything he does that actually MAKES you suspicious? Does he treat you well? Is the intimacy there? Does he initiate the "i love you" phrase often? And how long have you been together?

    Or you can straight up ask him. See how he reacts just out of the blue being asked this?

    If there doesn't seem to be an obvious problem, then i wouldn't worry about it. You will convince yourself of it, and could very well end up ruining your relationship.

    Answer by TheMaMaBear_321 at 1:29 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • If you have to question it then why are you still there?

    Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 1:47 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • well that is a good ? but i hope whatever you do is for the best good luck mama

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 2:59 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • past actions will predict how he will act in the future....leave him behind.

    Answer by karensue65 at 9:33 AM on Jan. 8, 2011

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