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Have you ever been though tough times with your husband or S/O?

If so how did you get through them?

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Darla47

Asked by Darla47 at 2:41 PM on Jan. 7, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • Yes. Death of our infant daughter and an autism diagnosis for our son
    We're best friends. We're there for each other and we're not selfish
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 2:43 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • Faith, hope and love
    bjojola

    Answer by bjojola at 2:43 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • well im not married but me & my boyfriend got into a big arguement & he broke up with me at 1 point & wanted to take my son away from me but he felt bad for saying that & know he loves me more than anything & want nothing better but to be a couple again & he became more respectfull & kind & know were are together again & im more happier then ever
    Ricanmami1

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 2:45 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • Deaths in the family and seizue dia for our son. We are there for each other! LOVE LOVE TIME AND RESPECT
    rebeccadac

    Answer by rebeccadac at 2:46 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • Yep, job losses, custody issues etc. We get through it by being there for each other and falling back on our friendship. If we can keep that friendship popping then we can get through anything.
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 2:47 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • devotion, love, faith, trust and forgiveness.
    you gotta be there for each other..and you have to be able to count on each other. communicate with each other. if things aren't working out, talk about it! most things should be able to be hashed out.
    give a lot, take a little.
    -mrs.mamma-

    Answer by -mrs.mamma- at 2:49 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • We have been married for 25 years.. Of course we have been through tough times. A whole lot of life happens in 25 years.. Here's just a few things we have been through: Emotional abuse, drinking problems, infidelity, money issues, health issues, and the myriad of other problems life can throw at you through a 25 year span.

    What has gotten us through all of those things.. The desire, the will, the drive, the effort, and the love that made us WANT to get through those things together. That's it. We BOTH wanted to get through all those things together, and we were both willing to put in the effort, the love, the time, etc... to work together to get through those things together.

    A couple can not get through tough times together, if they do not want to get through them together and they both aren't willing to put in the effort and work to get through them together. A couple has to work together, not against one another.
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 2:52 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • most of our marriage has been a tuff time just due to the fact we have always lived paycheck to paycheck. but we always seem to pay the bills and move on to the next month...... its stressful but we have each other and thats what counts. its us against the world
    mistik75

    Answer by mistik75 at 2:53 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • We hit a rocky patch during our engagement, but our entire relationship is based on communication... and that's how we worked it all out. We are very open with one another.
    JessiFaye

    Answer by JessiFaye at 3:05 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • Sheer stubborness has gotten us through lol.
    gabenmikeysmom

    Answer by gabenmikeysmom at 3:07 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

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