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ok, i am 20 weeks pregnant and have issues sexually.. my sex drive hasnt really increased or decreased much since becoming pregnant but i just dont enjoy it as much anymore. I dont EVER get turned on unless i am still asleep when he starts messing with me, (he always wakes me up for sex now. lol) idk if it is just that i am too sore to even want sex or if there is something else wrong. the doctor says the pain i experience is just ligament pains but idk. i have pcos also and am wondering if that could lower my want. i dont know wat to do. i just need some advice. my SO is getting his feelings hurt because i dont ever want to do nothing, he thinks it is his fault.. please help??

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Asked by 1sttimemom2011 at 8:19 PM on Jan. 7, 2011 in Pregnancy

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    Answer by Roadfamily6now at 8:22 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

  • I wasn't allowed to have sex while I was pregnant since I had placenta previa and the doc told us no sex. BUt I brought him with me to a doc appt so he would understand what is goin on with me. Maybe you should do the same, bring him to one of your appts so he can ask questions to the doc about the changes that are happening to you. This way he can see that it is not his fault.

    Answer by bewitchedmom at 8:29 PM on Jan. 7, 2011

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