My baby's father left me, which he's done several times, three days before Christmas. The time before he broke of our engagement, kicked me and my two daughters out, when I was 8 weeks pregnant. Before that he'd break up with me for a couple of days and then come back. His reason is my mistrust of him. But he is an alcoholic, sometimes on the wagon, and I have found evidence of him being with other women. He tried to make me think I was crazy, being so suspicious of him...but I felt my suspicions were warranted. I do love him and want more than anything for us to be a family - our baby is only two months old. Our sex life was amazing, for both of us - although he was less interested in it than I was.
My question is: After all this, if he comes back and says all the right things, should I take him back? Right now I don't think I would. But I've been weak before.
Answer by jdbrown21 at 10:33 PM on Jan. 7, 2011
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Answer by admckenzie at 10:42 PM on Jan. 7, 2011
DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK.You are making him think it's ok treating you like this because you keep taking & putting up with him. You need to be strong & let it go. If he wants to make things work he will have to prove it to you.
Answer by iluvmykidsxoxo at 10:43 PM on Jan. 7, 2011
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