Me and my BF have been together for about 5 months. We live apart and I have a 3 year old daughter. Sometimes I feel like he wants to stay at the same level that we're at right now. We love each other and say I love you. I usually go to his apartment one night out of the week and one night out of the weekend. I'm ready for us to move in together and be serious. He says he can see us "living together at somepoint in the future". But I saw a question on here kind of related to this and some of the answers got me thinking. Does he not want to make that kind of commitment right now because he's getting everything he needs without us living together. He's getting my love, attention, sex and companionship. Am I moving too fast? I feel like he is "the one". Should I just back off (not text and go over so much) and see what happens? Feeling kind of confused about this situation. He's pretty good with my daughter and we all go and do stuff together on the weekend. He doesn't have any kids and has never been married. Pretty much a quiet and simple man. He's a nerd lol. He's great though.
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