basically, treat you equal or treat you better ?
I am asking because I obviously think I would rather be "spoiled" .
I love my husband and I treat him well but honestly he treats me better than I do him ( usually because my attention is based on the kids and the house) .... he always gives me my way, gets me little gifts, and basically puts me on a pedistal.
So the other day was our anniversary and he got me an anniversary band ( goes on top of my wedding ring set)... I posted the photo of it on facebook... I had alot of comments on it, one from a friend who said how great my husband is and I replied " yeah he spoils me" ..... I then got a comment from on of my aunts friends ( my aunt had me add her when she first got facebook) .... and said that a marriage will last longer when you are treated as an equal, not a queen bee .....
I dont know, I kind of thought it was a little rude..... also considering this woman has been divorced 3 times and is currently single, and we have been married for 7 happy years, I dont think I want to take her advice.... what do you think ?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:12 PM on Jan. 8, 2011 in Just for Fun
Answer by BraydinsMommy09 at 8:17 PM on Jan. 8, 2011
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Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:34 PM on Jan. 8, 2011
Answer by jdbrown21 at 8:36 PM on Jan. 8, 2011
i like being spoiled.
Answer by maya123 at 9:16 PM on Jan. 8, 2011
Answer by Mom2Just1 at 9:41 PM on Jan. 8, 2011