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Do you accept all the friend invites sent to you?

I don't accept all of them. I think about 60% of the friend invites I get are accepted.

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Asked by _Tam_ at 11:00 PM on Jan. 8, 2011 in About CafeMom

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Answers (15)
  • I have only accepted one.

    Answer by zebbiebug at 11:00 PM on Jan. 8, 2011

  • I don't. It's not because I'm mean. I just prefer to know more about people and have a better sense of our similarities. I'm also cautious about safety.

    Answer by misses_nick at 11:03 PM on Jan. 8, 2011

  • I only accept the ones from people I recognize and have talked to before, either in groups or here.

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 11:07 PM on Jan. 8, 2011

  • No. I have a few crazy stalkers who have tried to friend me with fake profiles. So it's hard for me to friend a stranger.

    Answer by Mme.Langley at 11:10 PM on Jan. 8, 2011

  • I accept them all, what's funny is none of them leave messages or anything and they invited me, lol But what the hell, I have nothing to hide, my profile is public info. And friends are good :)

    Answer by Kathy675 at 11:11 PM on Jan. 8, 2011

  • Nope. I've sent out 2, and have not accepted the 3 sent to me. Yep, been here a while and that's what I"ve gotten. Oh well, I'm not here to make friends, I have all I need!

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:17 PM on Jan. 8, 2011

  • Nope - like Mrs. BAT, only the ones I know

    Answer by NotPanicking at 11:20 PM on Jan. 8, 2011

  • No, I don't. I have a stalker ex who follows me on the internet. So, far I have been lucky and he hasn't found me on CM. For, this reason, among others, I am very cautious of the invites I accept. I don't like blind invites. If it's not a person from one of my few groups or someone I know from Q&A, then I don't accept. I also hate the invites that use the generic "looks like we have something in common" line. C'mon, be a little more personal and let me know how you found me and what we really have in common. Are we in a common group? Do we share a common intrest from Q&A? Gimme a clue! LOL.

    Answer by specialwingz at 11:29 PM on Jan. 8, 2011

  • i would love to accept invite but i have no car so go so i always decline cause i wont be able to go

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 1:16 AM on Jan. 9, 2011

  • I do, as long as I can tell that it's not spam.

    Answer by thatgirl70 at 1:41 AM on Jan. 9, 2011

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