I know in the bible it says that you must have marriage before sex/children. But what if you are with someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with but do not want to be married. Do you follow your heart or your religion?.. Personally im more into spirituality & am not religious at all, I dont beleive that you should be married to share yourself with someone you are so in love with. & if they say god is so accepting then why do we have to follow so many rules, that in my perspective make you something that you are not?... I am not trying to go against anyones beliefs I just like to hear your thoughts on this. *:) Thanksss
Answer by Mrs.BAT at 3:07 AM on Jan. 9, 2011
There is a difference between God accepting what you do and loving you despite what you do. God does not accept premarital sex, but He does love you anyway. It bothers me that often people think that God is this big thing up in the sky making up rules so we can all be miserable slaves for him. There are reasons for the "rules" and they are in your best interest (whether you believe it or not). God intended marriage and sex to be in image of His love and the Trinity. If you are not married before you have sex you are taking the act out of context.
Long story short, if you only "spiritual" then your idea of marriage and sex does not have the same meaning as mine. When are ask me about marriage..we are talking about two different things and using the same word.
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