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Why does this happen??

So when you are just starting to date again and everything is going really well with the person you're dating why does your ex always come back into the picture?.Didn't care about you when you needed him in your life and you were so alone so why care now? I just don't understand guys anymore

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:11 AM on Jan. 9, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (7)
  • That would be a question that I would ask your ex. Make sure that he knows that you have someone that you are dating and it is going great. That you would prefer that he step out and let you move on. This is only if you are over your ex. If so, make sure that he knows under no certain terms is he allowed to come back and interfer with your life. That you are done. Be strong and take that stand!

    Answer by guyandtoni01 at 1:20 AM on Jan. 9, 2011

  • Your ex guy sounds very immature and unsure about what he wants. He is obviously not ready to be in a relationship to give you what you need & yet is still jealous when he doesnt have you. Drop him! a guy that is THAT unsure about something so simple is bad news. For your emotions at least. Good Luck Hunn!! *:)

    Answer by Milani_Hunni at 1:22 AM on Jan. 9, 2011

  • guys want what they can't have now they you have some one new he wants you back!

    Answer by mom2eas at 3:02 AM on Jan. 9, 2011

  • Men always want what they cant have smh.......

    Answer by Marie_07 at 3:57 AM on Jan. 9, 2011

  • It could be that he is controlling and doesn't like that someone else "has you". Also, guys find women more desirable when they know they cannot have them or know that they are "hard to get". That's where the expression"playing hard to get" comes from.....

    Answer by SweetLoveofMine at 5:29 AM on Jan. 9, 2011

  • he does not want you but he doesnt want anyone else to have you either ............ its wierd but girls act the same way so go figure

    Answer by mistik75 at 11:47 AM on Jan. 9, 2011

  • My ex did the same thing and I was stupid enough to leave a great guy to be with him once again, I screwed up bad dont make that mistake, tell him your threw even if you do still love him

    Answer by Momabear455 at 4:19 AM on Jan. 10, 2011

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