Okay my husband claimed he had a vasectomy. But he's telling the rest of his family that he didn't, that he couldn't go through with it. I'm the only one he tells a different story too. When I asked him about it, he says he's health isn't he's family business so that's why he told them that. BUT he tells he's family EVERYTHING, even things about his health. So now I'm unsure. I don't want to be tricked into having a third baby.
We settled on 2 kids and now we have two kids but he changed his mind but I wont. I can't mentally or physically handle another child. I'm the primary care giver. Should I just get a tubal ligation? We've been having martial problems but we can't work on them until he gets back from deployment but I'm sticking to my guns about only 2 kids. My last pregnancy and delivery were really hard on me and took me almost 6 months to physically recover after birth. I don't know what to do at this point. He tells me one thing and tells everyone something else. My question is would it be wrong just to do a tubal ligation while he's deployed?
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