have you ever met your biological parents?
I was adopted at 6 weeks old. 3 years ago my mom passed away and my pop moved back to his hometown. when I was 15 I met my biological parents and they tried to 'play house'. it didnt work very well and we lost touch til i got married. my mom suggested i invite them and try to form a relationship. i have a biological sister that they ended up keeping, she is 10 years younger then me and we talk every now and then. I also have 2 half brothers and a half sister. my bio-father is trying to be in my and my children's life, and it seems to be going well. however my bio-mother came around and bought many presents for my kids for about a year. i have tried calling her and going to her house also, but she refuses to take my calls and open her door. thus i have given up. i wanted to have my children know her but if this is how she feels so be it.
i am truly happy with my adoption and how i was raised. i would not want things to be any other way. but i am hurt that 30 years later after a year of being in my life my bio-mother wants nothing to do with me again. i know it sounds stupid bc obviously she didnt want me to begin with but i thought maybe...
they gave me up bc they were both young no yet married and drug users. my bio-father straightened up (i was told) in 1982 and they both got married. my bio-mother however continued with the drugs until she ended up pregnant with my sister in 1990. they then got a divorce.
kind of a long vent. thanks for listening. :)
Answer by onethentwins at 1:22 PM on Jan. 10, 2011
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 10:16 AM on Jan. 10, 2011
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Answer by confused969 at 3:52 PM on Jan. 10, 2011