When I met my husband and became pregnant, I knew I had to put my dreams on hold so he can peruse his dream in the military. I did get to college and get my medical assistant certificate. I want to be a RN but settled for MA since there was a long waiting list for RN. My husband promised me that I will get to go to school again once he gets back from deployment.
Well he was told he can't re-enlist and now he's coming home. He told me we are going to be living with his mother (HELP ME!) while he goes to school for plumbing and RN. He hates RN! He isn't even interested in the medical field, never has been. He said he's doing it because he heard it makes good money. He rather make good money then be in a job he enjoys. He told me to get a job that pays at lease $15 a hour. (yeah right...) So I can support him while he goes to school. HE wanted me to be a SAHM when we got married. He didn't want me working at all. I wanted a job so bad but figured I'll respect his wishes for right now till my kids get a bit older.
I'm really hurt he's going after my dream.... I wanted to be a RN, I wanted it since I was n the 9th grade. I feel my dreams keep getting pushed aside so he can continue his. He has a chance to join the Army but he won't because he wants to be here for his mom. (she's a drama queen and a hydroconriact, SP?)
He keeps giving me empty promises... I left my life behind and gave things up for his dreams but he refuses to give up a few things to I can get to my dreams...
Believe me he told me he hates the medical field but is only doing for the money it will bring.
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