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What is your biggest pregnancy fear

What do you worry about the most during your pregnancy?

It can be about the pregnancy, the labor/delivery, or postpartum w/baby.

 
charisma10

Asked by charisma10 at 1:16 PM on Nov. 12, 2008 in Pregnancy

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Answers (8)
  • Having to have an unnecessary c-section.
    Tearing.
    The epidural not working or not being able to get one.
    Having complications PP due to the epidural or any other part of labor.
    Something being wrong with my baby girl that nobody could see on the u/s.
    Going WAY past my due date. It's bad enough to have to sit here waiting to go into labor...it would be worse to be 42 weeks wondering if I'll EVER go into labor.

    For the record...pooping on the table is the LEAST of my worries. I don't get how everyone is so terrified of that...most women do it and don't even realize it : /
    caitxrawks

    Answer by caitxrawks at 1:19 PM on Nov. 12, 2008

  • My biggest fear is that my home birth plan will go to pieces because baby is breech (or something like that). Having to deliver a baby at a hospital scares me like crazy. I get nervous just thinking about it. C Section especially.
    charisma10

    Answer by charisma10 at 1:19 PM on Nov. 12, 2008

  • The thing I miss the most is feeling and watching the baby move inside me. I miss when they are brand new and you can just lay there and stare at their tiny face all day. Listening to them breathe and make thier tiny squeaking noises. I also miss nursing and watching my baby gaze up at me while she eats.
    Kimx3babies

    Answer by Kimx3babies at 1:19 PM on Nov. 12, 2008

  • My biggest fear is something happening to the baby. I am always worrying about that.
    feistymomma11

    Answer by feistymomma11 at 1:49 PM on Nov. 12, 2008

  • mine was either miscarriage or premature baby or giving birth at home but all was fine and im sure all will be fine with u good luck
    ocean122489

    Answer by ocean122489 at 2:00 PM on Nov. 12, 2008

  • misscarriage...
    that'd kill me if that happened...id never talk ever again..too upsetting
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:01 PM on Nov. 12, 2008

  • My baby dying in utero. It happened with my first so it's a constant fear.
    blainesmommy03

    Answer by blainesmommy03 at 2:51 PM on Nov. 12, 2008

  • tons.... something happening to the baby between now & delivery, the epidural not working, having problems during delivery, being depressed post partum, not being a good mother, the baby getting sick EVER lol.
    xoxemzgirlxox

    Answer by xoxemzgirlxox at 2:20 PM on Nov. 17, 2008

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