Are you talking in reference to this person knowing that your husband was married and she had a relationship with him?
If so.. I can only share my personal opinion in regards to that.. What does it matter if she knew or not.. HE knew he was married. HE made the choice to cheat.. HE is the one that is responsible for his actions, no one else.. He and he alone is responsible for cheating, breaking your heart, hurting you, disrespecting you.etc.etc..
I am sorry you are going through this.. I have experienced my husband cheating. I know the pain, the anger, and all the other feelings that come along with the situation. However, no one else cheated on me but my husband. My husband made that choice. My husband hurt me. My husband broke my heart. My husband broke his vows.. No one else is responsible for that.. Bottom line..Another woman can not make my husband cheat any more than I can make him be faithful. He controls that.
at 5:23 PM on Jan. 11, 2011