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How do you hold on to your marriage if you feel like your losing your husband?

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Darla47

Asked by Darla47 at 5:36 PM on Jan. 11, 2011 in Relationships

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  • How to hold on would greatly depend on why he was choosing to distance himself from me.
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 5:37 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • Frist you need to find out why you feel like you are losing your husband. Then work on the problems. Take some time for you and your hubby away from outsiders to reconnet. Try going to a marriage workshop. If you want your marrage to work find the way to keep it.
    deesam

    Answer by deesam at 5:56 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • You have to communicate. If you haven't been nice, positive, or loving, show him again why he married you in the first place. Show him how much you love him and put it all out there. Tell him you love him. IF it still goes on after months of trying, you may need outside help, or you could try that now. Good luck! I feel sorry for you!
    JackieGirl007

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 7:19 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • Do some soul searching, find out if you are bringing what you are capable of bringing to the marriage. If you are bringing all you've got, then look toward him. You can't make him stay in the end, you can only change your own behavior and then when it's all said and done, you know that you've done what you could. Good luck. I feel for you, this can be devastating.
    amybaby_19

    Answer by amybaby_19 at 9:00 AM on Jan. 12, 2011

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