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Pregnant or not? adult content

Aug 9-12 i had my period, then i was late till Sep 21-25 i was spotting really lightly, like i didnt have a need to a pad all of the given days. oct. 6-9 i had a regular period, i was schedule for a period on nov 5, i never goten my period. its Jan 11 and i was wondering, i had a late period b4 but by my calendar i would b about 13 and a half weeks pregnant, i been really tired, been haing nesting instinct, mood swing, breast been growing, gaining weight, a bit of acne, hair is healthier, joint pains, foot pain when i havnt been walkin for a while, and maybe a lil TMI but i might have hemorrhoids, when i do a bowel movement it stings a bit, a lil blood when i wipe, minute itching and a lil painful. i got all the from 10 things that might surprise u when pregnant, thats 7 out of 10, i want to b preggo but im scared to go to the doctor or take a test, help plz

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:09 PM on Jan. 11, 2011 in Pregnancy

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  • Is this a joke? Take a HPT or grow up and go to the doctor. Why on earth would you be scared? The women of Cafe Mom can't diagnose pregnancy for you.

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:12 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • The only way to know for sure is to take a test.


    Answer by JeremysMom at 7:12 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • The ONLY way you are going to know FOR SURE is to take the test, see a doctor, or give birth.

    Answer by 2autisticsmom at 7:13 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • ur right i should grow up and im sorry for botherin u guys with this.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:14 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • Take a pregnancy test. There should be no reason to be afraid of going to the doctor. Having hemorrhoids does not mean you are pregnant. Having hemorrhoids means that you have been constipated, and are straining to much when you have a bowel movement. Your hair get healthier when you are pregnant from the prenatal vitamins that you take, not from being pregnant. Nesting does not start this early in a pregnancy, nesting starts near the end of pregnancy, and prior to delivery. Joint pain and foot pain have very little to do with signs of pregnancy, this happens as the pregnancy progresses, and your center of gravity are off, and you are caring the extra weight. We can only tell you what we think, and we can not tell you for sure if you are pregnant or not. You need to just take a test, and/or see a doctor, and that is that.

    Answer by mistical_me at 8:45 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • Go to the Dollar General and get a friggen $1 pregnancy test....for the love of God.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:22 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • You write like a teenager. If you are a teenager, then you better hope you aren't pregnant. Babies consume ALL of your time and energy. And they are not always the cute little cooing angels you want to think they are. You have to be patient, wise, and 100% ready to devote your entire life to someone else who needs you 24/7. Your life, your sleep, your socialization, your ability to shower when you want to and eat dinner when you want to and go online when you want to completely changes. When you are a teenager, these changes are not for the better. A baby deserves an ADULT parent, don't you think?

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:19 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • take a test

    Answer by truealaskanmom at 4:23 AM on Jan. 12, 2011

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