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somebody asked a question about looking not touching

so i wanted to know is it okay to fantasize about the person when your with your so.
or is it okay to fantasize about them when you by yourself

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Asked by 19angie74 at 9:17 PM on Jan. 11, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I do not think that it is ok to think about others

    Answer by dancinintherain at 9:20 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • I'd say by yourself lol. If you're with that person and fantasizing about someone else then you are probably not INTO that person.

    Answer by Imortlmommy at 9:22 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • just as long as you keep your fantasy to yourself to avoid hurt feelings with SO, id say by yourself... theres such a thing as having a lil crush, nothing wrong with it

    Answer by My2boys0523 at 9:27 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • Personally? No, I do not think it is ok. But thats me. I am not going to try and tell anyone else how they should feel about it.

    Answer by RheaF at 10:01 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • Personally no, only because it would kill me if I knew my DH was thinking about someone else... :( do to others how you want it done to you....

    Answer by mmyrick7 at 11:50 PM on Jan. 11, 2011

  • I guess, but I would ask yourself WHY you feel the need to.

    Answer by jonellg at 12:08 AM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • If its a one time thing or every now and again, then I say no.

    Answer by augest1 at 1:06 AM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • I think it's fine either way as long as it's not all the time. DH teases me that I am "excited" after watching Ben Affleck movies!!

    Answer by MeggieSwan at 11:38 AM on Jan. 12, 2011

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