I think I have the baby blues.... It has been decided for a long while that we are not having any more kids... I have a 4 year old daughter and a 2 year old son, and in reality I do believe we are done. Financially, physically, emotionaly - we can't have any more...
I have been fine with this, and I think it is because I thought of all the things I didnt want to do anymore ( the pregnancy sickness, the dr visits, the pain, the worry of another, the up all nights, the extra money, less space to go around, etc) ...... Even if I could get past that I doubt I could get pregnant anyways because right now I am labled infertile ( so if we wanted we would have to do fertility treatments) ...
BUT for the last months I have been feeling a sadness, because I miss having a baby, that I almost urge for a baby again ... I am getting to the point to where the up all nights and the morning sickness doesnt seem that bad ... we are currently looking for a new home and I am seriously considering scratching off the 3 bedrooms and only looking for a 4 bedroom ...
When I see baby things ( like cribs, clothing, etc) I have to keep myself from crying ...
What is wrong with me
Will this pass ?
Have you felt like this ?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:31 PM on Jan. 11, 2011 in Parenting Debate
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