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did you ever catch your dh double look at a pretty girl

mine did and he said you dont have nothing to worry about i always come home with you or to you. did you catch him and what did he say?

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19angie74

Asked by 19angie74 at 11:55 PM on Jan. 11, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Yes-- and I scold him only if he "swivels"-- looks so hard and long that his head swivels on his neck. :D Then I show him how to discreetly look... with hot guys. he he
    Busimommi

    Answer by Busimommi at 12:01 AM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • Never. If he looks he's discreet. Honestly I don't think he looks when he's with me.
    jonellg

    Answer by jonellg at 12:04 AM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • Yes he has, and sometimes I'll be like "Wow she's gorgeous!" and he'll look but I don't get mad I just say something along the lines of "I saw you lookin, don't try to be slick." lol He doesn't deny it either. It's pretty rare but whatever. He works with the public as a personal trainer and a grocery store manager so I'm sure he see's attractive people all of the time that he might glance at. No harm done.
    DomoniqueWS

    Answer by DomoniqueWS at 12:04 AM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • Of course... I don't think its a big deal.
    Mel_in_PHX

    Answer by Mel_in_PHX at 12:07 AM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • "double look" ?
    don't we all look? I look at handsome guys. Who cares. Jealous? Insecure?
    kerp1960

    Answer by kerp1960 at 12:28 AM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • I never said anything when I've seen him look because it's only natural and can't say I've never done it. However glances are okay, if he was staring a woman up and down hardcore then I think that's disrespectful (if it's obvious). Once he did say something similarly to what your DH said, real cute..
    lexi8622

    Answer by lexi8622 at 12:45 AM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • Yep, and now there's a restraining order out on them for "favoritism." I put my foot down after I saw where it was going. We're working through things now.

    Once upon a time though, if it was TV...we'd comment on WHY the double takes...look, but don't touch if we knew it wasn't going anywhere.
    Imortlmommy

    Answer by Imortlmommy at 1:21 AM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • Just Jennifer Garner when she was on Alias. And he has NO shot with her, so who cares?
    Fistandantalus

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 6:57 AM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • I know he may notice a pretty lady sometimes, he's not dead. Neither am I! But we are respectful and don't ogle someone or make it obvious or anything like that.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:51 AM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • I catch him all the time. Its histerical. He generally doesn't even notice. WHats worse is that I see the good looking ones usualy waaaay before he does and he's like "really, how do i miss this stuff?" Good question honey. But we are very open with one another about flirting and finding other people attractive. Its fun to see what he's looking at sometimes but other times I just wonder WTF is that all about? EWWW. Lol. We are faithful to one another, don't get any ideas. We just are honest about seeing a good looking member of the opposite sex.
    GoldenLinds

    Answer by GoldenLinds at 3:22 AM on Jan. 13, 2011

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