Long story short, I quit years ago when we had kids. Important to stay healthy, save money, set a good example for the kids, etc, but DH will not stop! He doesn't smoke indoors, so that's not the issue. He switched to cigars so he won't have to smoke as often but he inhales the cigars like a cigarette. EWWWW. He runs around coughing and hacking all the time and is pissing me off in a major bad way. Yes, I know he has to want to quit, blah blah, but it makes me angry that he doesn't want to quit. He's killing himself and wasting our family's money! I am trying to let it go, to be cool, but it's so far up under my skin it hurts. We fight about it this an awful lot.
This is part vent, part requesting feedback on how I can learn to not care I guess. Because I don't think he's going to stop.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:05 AM on Jan. 12, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Auntiemom410 at 9:22 AM on Jan. 12, 2011
Answer by missy19874419 at 9:06 AM on Jan. 12, 2011
I don't know how to tell you to care less, I would be mad too. I see smoking as an expensive form of suicide and would not support my husband in that choice at all. Good luck to you (c:
Answer by scout_mom at 9:07 AM on Jan. 12, 2011
maybe he will not quit for family maybe you should appeal to his vanity and to his health show him what guys who have been smoking for years look like and use the pictures of people who emphysema It worked for me I met a woman who had it and she was forty I was thirty and it made me quit. you will have to get creative.
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