I have two wonderful boys, and they have the same father. When my first was born he was around for about 4 months before he found trouble and ended up in prison. He was in for a year. When he got out, we tried againl. Me being a young single mother and very nieve I took him back. He was out for about 6 months just long enough for us to concieve my second child. When I saw him headed back down a bad path. My son and I packed up and moved in with my mother. We stayed there for three weeks untill I found another apartment. So during this time I had a full time job and paying for the apartment my X took over, and was paying for my new apartment as well. As soon as I got in to my new apartment I talked to my old landlord and closed out that one. Well then he went of the deep end. Banging on my windows threatin to kill my cat. To take our only son at that time, and teach me a lesson. About three months went by and he got arrested again. He has been in prison ever since. So about three years now. Well he is due to be out soon, and I am scared to death that he is going to come back and start doing the same thing again. I need to file a parenting plan, but em having issues on how to go about it. And am also scared that they will grant him any type of visitation. What should I do? I know I need to protect them, but I can't even imagine letting him talk them on the weekends or even having a suppervised visits.
Does anyone have a similar store that can eass my mind?? I don't personal know anyone it this type of situation. Please let me know what you went through and how you coped.
Thanks everyone. I am new here, and still trying to get the hang of this site. Thanks again.
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