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My 17 yr old son just got his first little car. He is going places he should not, and doing things like leaving school early, and I even found out he skipped school with his girlfriend. I am a single mother and want ideas on what a proper discipline should be. They both apologized for skipping school and said it would not happen again.

 
diamondgoil

Asked by diamondgoil at 8:07 PM on Jan. 12, 2011 in Teens (13-17)

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  • Are there any RULES set up? If not, meet with him and write up a rules list. Have him sign it and agree to it. Then if he breaks the rules, the car is taken for a week or whatever you feel is fair.

    Stick to your guns Girl! Good luck.
    AdrianaS

    Answer by AdrianaS at 8:09 PM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • Take the keys and let him ride the bus to school.
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 8:08 PM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • HA! A week? More like a month! He needs to prove he is going to be responsible, a week is not going to do that.
    Soniam301

    Answer by Soniam301 at 8:14 PM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • Take the keys until he can prove he is responsible
    bugfin

    Answer by bugfin at 8:08 PM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • Driving is not a right, take his license from him. Tell him until he behaves he will be taking the bus or walking. You are responsible for him if he wrecks in the car and is at fault you can be sued. I would also have a talk with the school seeing as they can't properly supervise children in their establishment.
    matthewscandi

    Answer by matthewscandi at 8:10 PM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • Until he got to where he was doing whta he was suppoed to and being where he was supposed to he wouldn't have his little old car if that was me. Take the car.
    Moms_Angels1960

    Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 8:08 PM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • indeed, i agree with the pp. take away his keys until he proves he can be responsible.
    princessbeth79

    Answer by princessbeth79 at 8:09 PM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • Take the car.
    christinato

    Answer by christinato at 8:09 PM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • * a month or longer...
    Soniam301

    Answer by Soniam301 at 8:14 PM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • Tell him you will personally turn him in to the truancy officer if he does it again. Call the gfs mom and tell on her so that you are both on the same page. Apologize and say you didnt know theyd do this and you hope maybe you can work together to make sure they arent doing it anymore. If he does it again follow through. Get him suspended if you have to. Take the keys and thats that. Do you pay the insurance on the car? If so tell him you just wont anymore.
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 8:14 PM on Jan. 12, 2011

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