My DH has a strong personality. I love him to death and he can be funny and sarcastic at the same time. But he has this habit of always saying things in a way that offends me. For example last night he said, "Your giving the kids a bath, again? Didn't you just bathe them last night", in a loud voice. I was quite offended and told him so. He said I was being to sensitive. I said "No, I feel critisized because you always question me in what I do." He said I was expecting him to be someone he's not. We argued about it an neither really relented. So was I being too sensitive?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:01 PM on Jan. 12, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by JennyJenny529 at 11:17 PM on Jan. 12, 2011
i would take it that he was making a joke. i would have said 'don't worry....i'm just going to hose them off in the backyard tomorrow!' i think that you were being too sensitive, but i think it was more about your overall relationship than just that one comment.
Answer by princessbeth79 at 9:05 PM on Jan. 12, 2011
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Answer by pinkdragon36 at 9:04 PM on Jan. 12, 2011
If it was a once in a while kind of thing ... you were being a tad bit over-sensitive on that, BUT if he is always like that, I can see where it would start to get next to you.
Answer by SpiritedWitch at 9:06 PM on Jan. 12, 2011
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