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HELP: A couple o' questions... Kinda TMI? adult content

1) How soon is too soon to have baby #2?
Our daughter is turning 1, tomorrow actually :) , and my husband and I want
another child.
2) Our lovemaking has turned into f*ing... How do I put the passion back into
the bed room?
3) Is there any tips you have for up-ing the chances for getting pregnant?

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ProudMom1.13.10

Asked by ProudMom1.13.10 at 11:52 PM on Jan. 12, 2011 in Trying to Conceive

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  • 1) How soon is too soon to have baby #2?
    Our daughter is turning 1, tomorrow actually :) , and my husband and I want
    another child.

    It should be fine. :) Too soon, would like between 6 weeks and 3 months after birth.

    2) Our lovemaking has turned into f*ing... How do I put the passion back into
    the bed room?

    talk to you DH. Slow down, Foreplay, date night....

    3) Is there any tips you have for up-ing the chances for getting pregnant?
    Yes, learn your cycle. Read the book, Take Charge of Your Fertility.
    Roadfamily6now

    Answer by Roadfamily6now at 11:55 PM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • 1. I say you should wait 18 months inbetween each child.
    2. Sex toys, wine, candles, etc... Get lots of lingerie and little things. Tell him you want HIM to pick it out =)
    3. Nope, I never had to try longer than a month to get pregnant. GL!
    Razelda

    Answer by Razelda at 11:57 PM on Jan. 12, 2011

  • I cant answer all of these questions but my youngest 2 kids are 10 months and 3 weeks apart and at first it was kind of hard. 2 kids in diapers. 2 kids hungry at same time. 2 kids wanting attention at same time. But i had some awesome moments with them also , they are so much fun. They always have each other to hang out with , they learn from each other etc.... my oldest and my middle child are 4 years apart and they fight and argue and bicker and never ever get along. when my middle child was born , my oldest had a very very hard time and still does to this day. My opinion is that 1 or 2 years apart is good and anything further you risk having some jealousy issues with the older kids, and its hard because i love my oldest greatly and she doesnt understand that since the other 2 are younger they require much more attention.
    Itsallgood

    Answer by Itsallgood at 12:03 AM on Jan. 13, 2011

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